ORDER IN THE CHURCH: SEXUAL IMPURITY

 

The cry locally and globally regarding sexual impurity in the church on the part of the church leader leaves a lot of questions and opportunities. Were those with the titles of Bishop or Pastor within the local church afraid to address these serious matters because they were afraid of financial fallout and popularity. Everyone needs to really read and seek to understand I Corinthians 5. We need to judge within the church and let God deal with the world.

The Church seriously needs to look at how they select leaders – are they selected by level of education, societal status. Leaders must be selected by the Holy Spirit and the Word particularly Acts 6; I Timothy 3: 6, Luke 6: 12 – 17.

Is the church putting young converts and people who are consumed with pride in positions of leadership in the Church – those who are untested – (I Timothy 3: 6). These days, people turn into Bishops and Apostles overnight and have quite a large following thereafter without them being tested or proven.
 
When a leader of a church – whether Pastor, Bishop or Prophet – commit sexual sins openly, and it is exposed they are still kept in the position without correction or restoration and then they call it grace! (Galatians 6: 1) Part of the restoration process includes discipline; for example, putting them to sit down for a year while they receive counselling.
If the church supports common-law relationships or marry those who are unequally yoked according to the Scriptures (II Corinthians 6) then it means the church is also upholding sexual impurity and opens the door for such.




What about Worship Teams and Musicians. They are now operating like stars and many of them are walking in sexual impurity, when they are supposed to be the most holy ministry in the church. Yet we allow them to operate and that opes the door to sexual immorality and defilement of the congregations. (Read IN HIS PRESENCE by Pastor Michelle Lyston) They mix with the world and think God is okay with it. So because we no longer allow the Holy Spirit, the Word of God and Jesus Christ to be the Center, the Body of Christ is now paying the price. If one belief is not lining up with the Word of God, then we are not even supposed to listen to them. Read Galatians 1: 8

Finally, many attend churches, but did God lead them to where they are going or is it simply a physical attraction?

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THE RISING OF THE SPIRIT OF INCEST

 

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2017 is a very significant year for every believer to rise up and fulfill their God-given purpose. We must walk in obedience according to Deuteronomy 28: 1 – 14 in order to receive the promise. Many persons have great expectations, but those will only come to fruition if we begin to change some things about ourselves now.

  •  We have to renew our minds daily
  •  Let our light shine
  •  Seek God daily
  •  Obedience to the instructions of the Lord

 

Prophetic Revelation

The Lord is showing me that the spirit of Incest will rise – especially that fathers will want to have sex with their daughters and uncles with their nieces. It is happening right across the board with families to destroy the institution of family and many are afraid to talk. We need to rise up against this spirit that is rising up to destroy the family. We also need to deal with the spirit of incest which is also destroying the church. Pastors and Bishops are ‘feasting’ on the flock so-to- speak and many of the churches sweep it under the carpet while they allow them to remain on the pulpit. But they must remember I Timothy 3. God is going to expose more of these issues. If we are the church and we are supposed to bring healing to the world, then it must start within the church. The spirit of Eli has to be broken and HOLINESS must reign if we are going to deal effectively with Perversion and the Spirit of Incest.




We also need to cry out against the Media, Hollywood who are promoting perversion and incest. It is extremely rampant, especially among Caucasians. Pray for Maryland. Pray against riots in Indianapolis Pray for the state of Alaska, as government officials are planning to go there regarding oil – potential problems. Pray for the souls of Beyoncé, Kim Kardashian, Lady Gaga, Jamaican singer Sanchez and Boy George. Pray also against a freak accident on Usain Bolt. He needs to seek the Lord and turn his life over to the Lord now. Single Christians need to read the story of Ruth in the Bible again and line up accordingly. Pray against meteorites creating havoc and against severe cosmic activities. Donald Trump needs to be wise regarding Russia. Russia is not his friend. There is a subtle plan to trap him and it can cause impeachment and topple his presidency. He needs to seek God as never before. The enemy will not come in a way to which he is accustomed. They are coming in suits and ties.

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The Pain Of Cheating

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Overcoming cheating/infidelity is not something easy to do or to deal with. With the global economic situation and the various nations and media pushing immorality, the institution of family is in crisis mode. There are many other devices used to promote and propel immorality, including swing clubs, websites, reality television programs and even recently, 400 churches/church personnel were caught employing the use of a website that promotes and engages infidelity.

Cheating is one of the most painful things to deal with because it is perceived as an act of betrayal and trust. Cheating carries consequences – both spiritual and physical.




Spiritually, it carries soul ties and opens the door for other tragedies to enter. For example, when David committed adultery, it almost destroyed his entire administration and wreaked havoc in his family.

Why Do People Cheat?

Different statistics show that the numbers for both males and females who cheat are quite close. It went further to reveal that women cheat for emotional reasons while men cheat for pleasure. In counselling with women, they have shared with me that they like to spend time with their men and they enjoy talking and sharing. So where a woman may speak, for example, one million words for the day, a man may only care to speak 500 words, hence that is a part of the frustration.

While the men would want to spend time with the boys engaging in sports, and even competitions, the women want to go with them too – even if they don’t understand the game – in an effort to understand the men more, or to become more involved in sharing their lives.

Women are quicker to cheat with gym instructors, yoga instructors, co-workers or neighbors with whom will spend more time and listen to them. The men are quicker to cheat with waitresses, go-go dancers, massage therapists, co-workers, helpers, and even VIPs will choose mates among their bodyguards. In the entertainment industry, actors go with actors, singers go with the dancers. In sports, the sports personalities will go with the cheerleaders. Sadly, church leaders sometimes find themselves in the wrong situation with other leaders or members with whom they spend more of their time.

Cheating does not only affect the persons directly involved, but also their children, friends and family members. Over the years, I have seen situations where children are conceived and one tries to hide it to preserve the family, but it still comes to light.

Very often, if the person is influential in society, the media will expose it, especially if they are running for office. We are seeing it played out, as an example, in a television series called the Haves and the Have Nots. We saw the Arnold Schwarzenegger situation with the helper come to light.

WAYS TO AVOID CHEATING

There are many things husbands and wives need to do to avoid cheating.

– Exercise trust – share passwords.

– Compliment each other.

– Do not withhold sex from each other.

– Maintain the things they did that brought them together.

– Invest in family time.

Avoid unnecessary business trips without your spouse. (Most corporations need to allow the spouses to travel with their employees on the long-distance business trips.)

Husbands and wives:

– Must pray together.

– Cut down on the long hours spent on social media.

– Stay away from pornography of any kind and sex toys.

When cheating takes place, there is always the option of divorce. But before you go that route, always make the effort to fight for your marriage. Most people refuse to forgive; but every effort must be made for reconciliation.

Many people try to work it out on their own and fail to do so, so they need to find mature spiritual counselors. Sex therapy doesn’t work – it only complicates the matter.




The next thing one has to do is to evaluate all the persons within their scope of influence to see if those persons are adding to or subtracting from their marriage.

Great effort must always be made to improve communi-cation with each other and stay away from anything that promotes immorality, so that no unnecessary doors are open to healthy relationships.

Husbands and wives must forgive. If an act of infidelity took place in the past, and resulted in a child being born outside the marriage, then work together to include the child or your spouse. There must be boundaries. The parent of that child ought not to go visiting the child alone – more will result.

 

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10 MISTAKES MARRRIED COUPLES SHOULDN’T MAKE

Family is the first line of government in any society and needs to be properly managed and maintained.  When we get marriages to function properly in the society then other institutions will then function right in order to make for a better society.
Sadly, the institute of marriage is under serious attack, and the following are things that married couples should avoid doing.
  •  ENTERTAINING DIVISION IN THE VISION. A married couple should not have two different visions and set of goals especially as it relates to the family unit.  They are one.  So when God says “leave and cleave” it means that each must put aside anything that would cause them to function as two independent units and embrace what would cause or allow them to function as one strong unit – in sync, fighting for one goal and accomplishing a single purpose for the family unit.
  • GIVING CONTROL OF YOUR MARRIAGE TO RELATIVES AND FRIENDS. Handing over control of your marriage and decision-making that takes place within it, to family members and friends can cause divorce.  When it is time for decision-making at any level within your marriage, you and your spouse should work it out through communication and prayer.  If that fails, then seek counselling from qualified persons who also have the best interest of your marriage at heart.  
  • ALLOWING SOCIAL NETWORKS TO STEAL QUALITY TIME.  Do not allow social networks/media to rob you of valuable and quality time with your spouse and your family.  Hiding passwords from each other, allowing ‘ex-friends/ex-partners’ to give you counsel about your marriage, posting pictures of past relationships with other friends commenting, exposes your family to verbal attacks and can have significant and grave consequences for your marriage and family life.
  •  DELIBERATELY DEPRIVING EACH OTHER OF SEX.  This is never to be a weapon in your marriage.  The Bible is clear on it in I Corinthians 7: 1 – 5 and Ephesians 5: 22 – 24.  Sex is a part of the covenant ascribed by God to husband and wife married to each other.
  •  NAGGING.  Proverbs 21: 19.  Nagging turns a person off and is an enemy to zeal and enthusiasm. It is defiling.  While nagging can be found on both sides, women are often found to be more guilty.  Nagging has the potential to drive a husband into the arms of another.  Nagging doesn’t solve anything, prayer and fasting do!
  •  POOR COMMUNICATION.  A lack of communication is the number one reason for marriage breakups.  Communication is not simply talking with each other, it involves attitudes, mannerisms, body language and even habits.  Non-communication is also a form of communication, but at its poorest level.  Some spouses make decisions for the family but do not communicate it to the other.
  •  EXCLUDING GOD FROM YOUR MARRIAGE AND FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.  Never make the mistake that society has by excluding God from your family unit.  God is to be first in your marriage and in your family unit.  Prayer and the Word of God in decision-making must be the first priority!  When problems arise, the Word will guide you.  A simple thing as going to bed with unresolved problems can become disastrous!  (I Peter 3: 7; Ephesians 4: 26)
  •  UNFORGIVENESS AND NOT SPENDING ENOUGH TIME TOGETHER.  Never bring past hurts into your marriage.  Focus on the future and not the past.  You have to make up your mind to let things of the past go!  Spend time together doing things together.  Marriage is about compromising and giving to and for each other.
  • ADULTERY AND NEGATIVE CRITICISM.  Avoid adultery altogether!  Never compare your marriage with others.  Avoid X-rated Movies and pornography as stimulants for your marriage.  Furthermore, negative criticism of each other MUST be avoided.  Speak life to each other.  Stay away from pornography, swing clubs and yoga.
  •  NEGLECTING THE JOYS OF AN EXCITING SEX LIFE.   Change our eating habits and set up a health plan for fitness.  Be careful of personal trainers.   Engage in healthy weight management together and embrace the use of natural remedies – herbs, fruits, vegetables and nuts – to help you maintain a healthy and exciting sex life.  Get back to basics and enjoy the benefits of these foods that God created, including Melons, Lettuce, Almonds, Unsalted Peanuts, Walnuts, Flax Seeds, Sesame Seeds, and Pumpkin Seeds and invest in a good blender or extractor.  Ezekiel 47: 12 reminds us that the leaves bring healing and God wants us healed body, soul and spirit, and at the same time, get a revelation of the benefits of the natural gifts He has given us.
The family is under attack and it is time to fight back.
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LOVE: THE MOST MIS-QUOTED, MIS-USED AND MIS-UNDERSTOOD WORD

 

Hebrews 12: 6 – 11 says “For whom the Lord loves He chastens, and scourges every son whom He receives.” If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons. Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness. Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.'”




Many times I have listened to secular social, moral and ethical debates on the issue of love; and many times people mis-understand the true context of what love really is. 90% of the deception that reaches people, comes through the use of this very word. John 3: 16 clearly states what true love is. Which politician or lobby group has ever given his or her life for another to have life? Furthermore, I Corinthians 13 speaks about 16 characteristics of love – regardless of who we are and what we do. If we are not measured with those characteristics of love, regardless of our profession, occupation or whatever we do for others, if it is not motivated by love then it doesn’t make sense. It is love alone that makes us like God. (I John 4: 7) Many times, even within the church, when people are corrected and told the truth, they say there is no love. That is not so! It is in fact love! Anyone who refuses correction or chastening by the Heavenly Father, spiritual parents, and biological parents are – by Biblical Standards, Illegitimate. Likewise, anyone who refuses to speak Biblical Truth on a situation is not operating in love! Anyone who compromises the truth and condones it is operating in Deception and not love.

Many times people will try to make Jesus a part of the deception of true love. God loves people – it is why HE gave up his only son to die for people. But when one rejects the love and sacrifice Jesus made, how then can we talk about love? Just think of your father dying and giving his life so you can receive an inheritance, and all you want is the inheritance, but you don’t honor, respect, appreciate or thank your father, is that love?

Many say they love God, but love is an action word, and so many refuse to honor him! Meanwhile, they will say they love family members, children and other loved ones, and then cheer them on when they are doing wrong – and say that is love! That is not love that is hypocrisy!

When politicians pass laws for our children to smoke marijuana, carry out abortions and other immoralities while so many are on the streets homeless, hungry, sick and suffering and would not give a dime to feed them! People have become lovers of themselves!

What about Pastors who refuse to tell their people the truth in order to have church growth and large bank accounts!




Show true love today and touch someone’s heart! Not in word, but in deed!

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SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE

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Sex is a topic that a lot of people are afraid to talk about, but a part of the prosperity that God has for mankind is for married couples to enjoy good sex. God created natural things in the earth for mankind for sustenance of sex life. You don’t need to take drugs to spice up your sex life, neither do you need to use artificial stimulators or try X-rated stuff to spice up your sex life. There are many things the world made deceiving persons that it will enhance their sex life but it in turns destroy their sex lives and ultimately their relationships. Just as we commit our lives to God, we must ask God also to bless our sex lives. One does not have to try yoga, meditation or masturbation to spice up their sex life. There are many ways God can help married couples through difficult times in this area.




Understand that there are persons out there whether it is past lovers or persons who are envious or jealous of your marriage who will speak against your sex life because they know that if your sex life suffers it can bring frustration and pain and can lead to divorce. Sex in marriage is a good thing (Genesis 1: 27-28, Genesis 2: 24, Genesis 5: 18-19)

I Corinthians 7: 2 – 3 reveals to us that, God wants married couples to satisfy each other sexually.

I Corinthians 7: 5 reminds us, never deprive each other. It is up to you to ensure that you fulfill your sexual duties to your spouse without complain. Remember, good sex reduces stress. Declare the word of God over your life daily to satisfy each other sexually. Ensure that you always create the atmosphere before you have sex; romantic candles and music, it is not necessary at that time to play gospel music!

Hebrews 13: 4, stay away from immorality. Use consecrated olive oil and anoint your sexual areas daily and massage each other regularly.

Look out for those who want to destroy your marriage, watch out for all third party persons. Watch out for subtle dinner and lunch dates especially at the work place, and be careful in whom you confide.

Be careful of accepting gifts, these sometimes come with wrong motives. Always remember that the enemy is after Christian marriages and he hates a good marriage.

Foods That Can Stimulate Your Sex Life

Grapes, Apples, Melons, Banana, Pear
Chicken Soup and Cornmeal porridge
Pumpkin Seed
Fish, Barely, Pepper
Grape juice and Orange juice
Almond milk, Honey
Parsley, Cinnamon, Garlic, Ginger (God created these spices, to spice up your sex life)
Non-Alcoholic Wine

*Ensure that you take your sea bath regularly, the salt in the sea will do a lot for you.

Pray About Your Sex Life

Regardless of what you pray for on a daily basis, ensure that you unite and pray for your sex life. Pray this prayer:




Father, in the name of Jesus I thank you each day Lord that you will bless me in the area of sex. Give me the necessary stamina to fulfill my purpose within the bedroom. Help us to satisfy each other and give us stamina, drive, longevity and compassion for each other. Cover our sex life from attacks and every word spoken from third parties.

(Husband say) Let the breast of my wife satisfy me.
(Wife say) Let every touch of my husband satisfy me. Give him skill, tactic and strategies.

Let us only have desire for each other and help us to have patience with each other. Let there be purity in our sex life. Let us hunger for each other daily and let each time sex takes place we receive maximum satisfaction. Lord cover our minds from soul ties and close every portal in our lives that the enemy would use to attack our sex life, we thank you lord that you have blessed us in Jesus name amen.

Take Note:
Wives, remember always dress sexy for your husband
Husbands and Wives be sensitive to each other’s needs.

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